What to wear
Attire
Guide
Wondering what to wear to each event? Each look — from boardwalk chic to Met Gala couture — is curated below.
Thursday · May 21
Day One
Struttin' the Jersey Boardwalk
National Welcome Reception
For Girl Friends
Boardwalk chic — sundresses, shorts, sandals, and beach resort wear. Channel your favorite boardwalk vibe.
For Boy Friends
Shorts, sandals, and your favorite beach resort wear.
Friday · May 22
Day Two
Golf Outing
Collared shirt with pants or shorts. Shorts must be at least mid-thigh in length and cannot be denim.
Boy Friends Optional Activities
Pickleball: casual athletic wear.
Gun Range & Museum: casual wear.
A Western Fling with Boots & Bling
NJ Friday Night Reception
Boots and bling — cowboy hats, denim, and shimmering accents. Keep comfort in mind for the desert heat.
A note from New Jersey
Set the Mood
A glimpse from the New Jersey Chapter — Cowboy Hats & Texas Hold 'Em, conclave preview.
Saturday · May 23
Day Three
Blossoms, Baubles, and Bags
Girl Friends' Luncheon
Chic all-white fashion adorned with bold gemstone jewelry that glitters in the Scottsdale sun. Top it off with shoes of any color and your unique showstopper handbag.
My Brotha's Keeper
Boy Friends' Luncheon
HBCU gear, fraternity letters, or your favorite pro/college team. Show your pride and let your shirt do some of the talking.
The Garden State Blooms in the Desert
Black Tie Gala · MET Gala Style
Formal, over-the-top, couture-inspired attire with striking Met Gala–inspired design elements — luxurious textures, bold embellishments, and unapologetic personal expression. Girl Friends are encouraged to lean into dramatic silhouettes.
Sunday · May 24
Day Four
Happy Trails Until We Meet Again
Farewell Brunch
Comfy travel clothes — you've earned it.